The Pains Which Are To Come

by Nina

Oak Tree in Late Summer Light by Brad Gibson

II.16. heyaim dukham anagatam

The pains which are yet to come can be and are to be avoided.
—Yoga Sutras, translation by B.K.S. Iyengar

Last night a friend was telling me what she loved about our blog was that it was positive and optimistic. We write about good things, she said, and have positive solutions. Well, we do believe that yoga has many answers for helping us age gracefully, and we regularly recommend various poses and practices for preventing and/or reducing many of the “pains” that accompany aging. But, I have to say, we are also realists, both about the “aging” and “yoga” parts of our mission. In the last five years, Brad and I have seen all four of parents die. All were in their eighties or nineties, and they died of diseases typical of the elderly (cancer, Alzheimer’s, stroke). Without going into details, I’ll say none of these deaths were particularly pretty, and certainly no amount of yoga poses or practices could have helped prevent the decline and pain that came at the end. In fact, with two of the deaths, from cancer and from kidney failure, we’re grateful for modern medicine’s painkillers.

As I’m sure many of you must know, experiencing the death of your own parents is sure to make you contemplate your own. We wonder for ourselves, if it is possible, how can we avoid the pains which are to come? For me, this is where yoga philosophy comes in. (Studying the scriptures is svadhyaya, one of niyamas that comprise the second branch of yoga, so this is as much a part of yoga as anything else we do and is obviously available to anyone, regardless of age or physical condition.)

Although I tend to turn to the Bhagavad Gita for wisdom about cultivating equanimity, I also find the Yoga Sutras an invaluable resource. To my mind, the Yoga Sutras is a brilliant work of psychology. Patanjali deconstructs how the mind works, identifying the roadblocks to cultivating equanimity, and then goes on to recommend solutions. I find this sutra particularly relevant for those of us concerned about aging:

11.3. The five afflictions (klesas) which disturb the equilibrium of consciousness are: ignorance or lack of wisdom, ego, pride of the ego or the sense of ‘I,’ attachment to pleasure, aversion to pain, fear of death and clinging to life. —Yoga Sutras, translation by Edwin Bryant

Aversion to pain, fear of death, and clinging to life, all of which seem to come along with aging, do indeed disturb our sense of equanimity. But the very fact that these feelings are identified as “afflictions” suggests to me that while there is always difficulty, including pain and death, we don’t necessarily have to experience it as suffering. It’s the aversion to pain that causes suffering, not the pain. And it’s the fear of death and clinging to life that causes suffering, not death—or dying—itself.

I actually find this explanation alone to be very helpful. For rather than just feeling that suffering is inevitable, knowing there is a difference between a difficult situation and my reaction to it helps me from getting so caught up in it (well, it’s a work in progress). So that’s a little “wisdom” to counteract the “ignorance” that is another one of the klesas. You can find a lot more wisdom in the Yoga Sutras, and I recommend reading this if you haven’t already. But what does Patanjali recommend for overcoming the klesas? After introducing the klesas and describing each one in detail, Patanjali simply says the following:

II.11. The states of mind produced by these klesas are eliminated by meditation. —Yoga Sutras, translation by Edwin Bryant

My friends will all tell you that I take very good care of myself. I practice yoga asana regularly, in way that supports my particular body and needs, I include stress management practices for my emotional well-being as well as my physical health, and I eat a healthy diet. But I believe that, in the end, cultivating equanimity through wisdom and practice will be the most important aspect of my healthy aging.

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How To Come Up With A Chiropractic Clinic

By Pamela Rogers

Coming up with your own medical center can be hard when you have your competitors to think about. However, this article can put you in a smooth flow. Simply be dedicated enough in making your dreams come true and stick with your timeline. This will prevent you from postponing your opening day.

You would have to create a business plan. This would contain all the things which you want to achieve for your chiropractic clinic Wilmington DE in a short amount of time. Pressure may not be something you want because you are just starting out but it is actually necessary. This can push you to look for more patients.

Get all the licenses for your business. Start with your credentials as a professional. Remember that it is important for you to make a good impression in Wilmington, DE. Also, with the proper papers, you would be able to operate smoothly and start establishing your reputation in the place where you are living.

You must find a way on how you could be a part of the most elite groups in your field. If you know some of their founders, talk about your plans of making a mark in your neighborhood. Just show sincerity in your aim for public service and let your educational background take care of the rest. Show confidence when you converse too.

You should be sure on where your money will be coming from. If you have everything figured out in your savings account, you no longer have to make some inquiries on a bank. This can save you from the interest which will only grow through time. This will also help you be more confident that soon enough, people will know about your business.

Choose the location which is not that far for people to go to. Remember that these individuals are already ill physically. So, consider adding other features such a ramp to your doorway for everybody to feel well taken cared of. Customer service is what would set you apart from your competitors.

Be serious in designing your office. Do not go for pink walls if your aim is to become noticed right away. You can get attention through flyers instead and even with the use of social media. It will also be great if you can work with an interior designer who is your friend at the same time.

Have the right number of staff but only think about expanding when you already have a stable patient database. It is important for you to maintain the quality of your services. So, only go for those people who have high work ethics and who are willing to learn a lot of things for only a minimum amount of time.

Have all of staff insured. In that way, they shall have more reasons to stay in your employment. Taking care of your business would always mean taking care of the people who are part of it too. Be known for being the kind of service provider who have genuine care for patients of all ages.

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